I found your outburst on plurk a couple of days ago hurtful and insulting. I'm usually accepting of your behavior -- I try to understand your depression and I know that despite your moments you are a remarkable person and can come through as a friend when people need you to. But you're also very hypocritical and selfish.
I know that it doesn't feel so great when people are talking about all the fun things happenings in their games and museboxes instead of tagging with you. But. You do the exact same thing to other people. I don't mind waiting for tags from you, or waiting for you to even look my way, in fact, but don't have to gall to complain about people doing to you what you do to others all the time. Somedays it feels like your flavor of the week people are the only ones you care about giving even a little attention.
It hurts, right? You have no right to compare not being tagged or IM'd to "abusive friendlationships friendships" when you perpetuate the exact same behavior. What do you want from this friendship? I'm I just a +1 to your plurklist? This is about more than just RP, this is about how you treat people; I adore you but you need to learn to treat people how you want to be treated.
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I know that it doesn't feel so great when people are talking about all the fun things happenings in their games and museboxes instead of tagging with you. But. You do the exact same thing to other people. I don't mind waiting for tags from you, or waiting for you to even look my way, in fact, but don't have to gall to complain about people doing to you what you do to others all the time. Somedays it feels like your flavor of the week people are the only ones you care about giving even a little attention.
It hurts, right? You have no right to compare not being tagged or IM'd to "abusive
friendlationshipsfriendships" when you perpetuate the exact same behavior. What do you want from this friendship? I'm I just a +1 to your plurklist? This is about more than just RP, this is about how you treat people; I adore you but you need to learn to treat people how you want to be treated.